IS SAINT LUCIA GAY FRIENDLY?

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I get this question often. Most commonly, I get this question on YouTube, since I’ve recently started a channel about life and travel here. It’s a question that’s difficult to answer in a YouTube comment when you have a limited amount of time and space, and the additional difficulty of not being able to “read” the person you’re talking to in order to determine if they’re really hearing you. The more I get this question, the more I do want to address it somewhere because the answer is both simple and complicated.

“Is Saint Lucia gay-friendly?” The short answer is no.

This answer should be a national embarrassment, yet it’s one that many of our residents who rely on tourism as their bread and butter hold proudly and dear to their hearts.

I’ve heard all the excuses and justifications of homophobia stemming from slavery (true) and also from Christianity being used as a tool of violence to keep enslaved people obedient to European rule (also true). While these historical facts paint the picture of why the Caribbean is homophobic, they don’t excuse it.

The violence Christians enact today in the name of misreading an excessively butchered translation of the Bible, is 100% their fault. And I’m going to come right out and make a controversial claim:

We deserve every dollar lost due to our violent intolerance and discrimination. 

I’m not sorry to make that claim because discrimination of any kind is unacceptable. End of story. There is no “religious” justification that can take away the ultimate alleged message of Christianity: LOVE THY NEIGHBOR.

Love is not conditional and if you believe it is, you need to hit that Bible once more and correct the hell out of your poisoned definition of love. The religious justifications for homophobia in this country are no longer an excuse. The legacy of slavery is no longer an excuse. While it may explain why our country is homophobic, this doesn’t excuse it. What are we doing right now to change the oppressive system enacted into law by slave masters? Answer: The majority of us are doing nothing.

So yes, I’m tired of coming up with excuses and yes, Saint Lucia is very much a homophobic country. You know you’re starting off on the wrong foot when you refer to sex as “sodomy” on the books. “Sodomy” is forbidden under Saint Lucian law.

Now, let’s get to where things get a little more complicated.

While legally, two men are not permitted to have sex and as you can imagine, getting married is out of the question, the law is difficult to enforce. Also, I’ve asked and there’s no word on whether two women having sex is forbidden. Loopholes on loopholes, I suppose.

I know a number of people in the LGBT community in Saint Lucia who get by here. I’m not sure how happy they are so I really don’t want to portray a message that I have no evidence of. Happy or not, LGBT Saint Lucians consider this place their home and have hope that the country will move forward in the future. Some people live with their partners in Saint Lucia as well and as far as I know, have not been arrested for doing such.

I will not promise that existence is without fear, threat or discrimination. However, it is a reality that we have an LGBT community in Saint Lucia and some people live openly.

To act as if gay people do not exist here is an act of violence itself, and I don’t wish to perpetuate that. (If you want me to expand more on this, comment down below.)

Now, the question at hand that often accompanies “IS SAINT LUCIA GAY-FRIENDLY?” is, would I recommend that a tourist visit Saint Lucia?

Let me put it to you this way. I would not put my money in the hands of a government that had “banned” black people or interracial relationships, lets say.

If the question isn’t a matter of where you’re putting your money, I would say that if you come to Saint Lucia as an LGBT person you can remain unbothered if you conform to the standards of dress acceptable for men and women in our culture. Also, I would not recommend public displays of affection towards your significant other or anyone of the same sex. (Usually, I find it’s more acceptable for women to dress “like men” than the other way around down here but I’m open to correction from women who have lived this experience.)

Would I recommend you traveling here? Hell no! That’s messy! I don’t like taking responsibility for people’s decisions like that. I would not feel comfortable assuring a tourist 100% of their safety in any homophobic country. My recommendation is to assess the situation and determine what you’re comfortable with.

If more tourists vote with their dollars and take a stance against homophobia here, I am certain the profit mongers in our tourism industry would inch slowly towards progress. However, that’s going to take a lot of dollars considering homophobia is not just a Caribbean issue, but a global one. If it’s your dream to see the Caribbean before then, I don’t think you should deny yourself the opportunity.

It’s possible to be safe. It’s possible to be unbothered by anyone. If you’ve survived anywhere else in the world where homophobia exists, you can certainly do it down here. Sadly, none of this prejudice is new.

Be warned that while the country’s laws may be lax, some of the rules of the resorts here are not and the white foreign resort owners are the ones most likely to enforce the rules that LGBT couples cannot stay there. Be mindful of this and do your research beforehand.

We have a lot of work to do in the field of human rights. Homophobia isn’t the only rampant discrimination that exists here, as with most other places in the world. I won’t sugar coat it and pretend it’s all a fat mug of cocoa tea. We have a lot of work to do as a country, let’s get to making a change rather than jumping through hoops to avoid accountability for the reprehensible.

If you hope to visit Saint Lucia and you have any more questions, I recommend that you check out my YouTube channel. My latest vlog is right here: https://youtu.be/7-SZQ5Sv_oc

 

 

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